From Barrister to Celebrant
Born in Leamington Spa, raised in Long Itchington, and now based in Shakespeare's own Stratford-upon-Avon — Warwickshire is woven into who I am. But my path to becoming a celebrant took me from Wales to France, London to Amsterdam, and through a chapter of my life that changed everything.
I read Law and French at university, spent a year studying in Nantes, France and then trained as a barrister in London. I went on to work at some of the country's leading law firms, specialising in International Corporate Law — including a period working across Africa as a French speaker.
It was a career that needed precision, composure and the ability to hold a room. Skills, as it turned out, that would serve me beautifully in a very different kind of practice.
The Story That Changed Everything
In June 2020, while in Amsterdam helping my partner recover from a serious illness caused by Covid, I gave birth — unexpectedly and completely alone — to our daughter Evelyn. When she arrived she wasn’t breathing. My partner and I resuscitated her ourselves, screaming down the phone to emergency services.
Evelyn was airlifted to hospital. I was told there was very little hope of her living. I was handed a catalogue of coffins. And I sat with that reality for many days.
Miraculously, her MRI came back showing minimal damage. Six weeks later, I brought her home.
That experience — teetering on the edge of losing someone so desperately important to me — changed my understanding of what truly matters. The welcome. The farewell. The ceremony. The words that mark a moment and carry it forward.
Finding My Calling
Where it all truly began
When I was heavily pregnant with my son Freddie, my godfather died - a real loss in my life. As I helped plan his funeral alongside a celebrant who was a family friend, she looked at me and said: Charlotte, you should look into this.
I couldn't attend the funeral — I'd had a C-section the day before and she rang to tell me off, for trying to discharge myself so I could be there. She sent me the script instead, so I could think of him from my hospital bed.
As Freddie turned out to be a wonderfully easy baby, and I thought about what that celebrant had said….it felt right so I requalified. I trained in funeral and wedding celebrancy through the Academy of Modern Celebrancy, and I haven't looked back since. I've now conducted over 100 ceremonies.
I've truly found my calling.